Great Thoughts On Planning Your Time As A Working Mum
Wednesday, November 3rd, 2010It’s almost that time of year again, and whether you have older children or little ones just starting out, September can be an exciting and nerve-wracking time for both parents and kids! Despite the big build-up to the September send-off, the school year is a long ten months that requires continued parental management and involvement. The working mum might not know what to do, as she tries to balance the vocations associated with her career, alongside the responsibility of managing the kids. This can be so overwhelming, that you might feel as if you are on a precarious tightrope in a circus, as you plan your business lunches, drive the kid’s back-and-forth to their piano lessons or ballet, arrange to meet with the teachers and so on. Whenever you feel a bit loony and need to find a shoulder to cry on, this is the time to go to your computer and login to the online coaching website that you had bookmarked. In the meantime, with some careful preparation, you and your kids can look forward to a happy school experience year-round! Follow the helpful pointers below to make your year a success.
Keep in Touch with the Classroom
Maintaining a relationship with your son or daughter’s school can help you keep abreast of all developments that affect your child’s education. If possible, meet the teacher a week or two in advance especially if your child is young as introducing them to their new classroom ahead of time can help ease any fears or anxieties they might have. Get a hold of a calendar of events from the school, so that you know how to follow along with your child’s adventures. Keep track of any questions or concerns and address them at Parent-Teacher interview nights, but ask your teacher to contact you earlier should any significant problems arise. Make sure that you go to all those PTA meetings whenever they take place and if you have the spare time, make yourself a volunteer for fund-raising events or those bake sales. This will allow you to meet and get to know other parents and children, so that you can see who your child is socialising with, at the same time as you make some potentially beneficial new contacts and friends.
Bring the Classroom Home
When it comes to a potentially successful school year ahead, it’s all about communicating and organising. Remember, that your children will want to feel as if they have some input and control over what is ahead and you should involve them in this planning, to make sure that their opinions are heard within the decision-making process. Before they get to school, make sure that they set aside a place for their homework, an area that they will feel comfortable within. Stock the area with supplies and storage tools to keep school work and clutter filed and ordered. On the wall nearby, put up a large calendar to help both parents and children keep track of any out of school activities, important tests or upcoming holidays. Make a point of gathering everybody together on a Sunday, so that the upcoming week can be discussed and the process of planning can be viewed as an inclusive and fun-filled family event.
Have a Plan of Action
It would be nice if we could plan for everything. Your after-school baby-sitter might cancel last minute if she’s stuck in bed with a sudden bout of the flu, or your latch-key child might forget his key on the bus ride home. It’s important for you and your kids to discuss potential emergencies and have a plan of action at the ready. Always be sure that you are in communication at all times and you should try and check in with the children periodically to see if everything is okay. As busy working mums, we might still find ourselves apprehensive about the school routine, worrying that homework might go unfinished or that Susie’s not getting enough one-on-one time with her teacher. No wonder you have a lot to do, as you add all this worry to the Monday morning work deadlines or upcoming midweek marketing meetings! When everything seems to be getting on top of you, now is the time to look for professional coaching. A good Life Coach can help you to understand how to strike a balance between home and work, while ensuring that the school year progresses smoothly all the way through to the end.
Amanda Alexander, Director of Coaching Mums, helps pressure-cooked, stressed working mums who long for more hours in the day. Through her coaching programmes and online coaching courses, Amanda shows mums how to create fulfilling and successful lives. For your simple 5 step guide to balance as a working mum, download our free eBook today!